My father in law passed away yesterday, after he got a really bad infection earlier this week. He had serious health issues and all, so while it's ever so upsetting, it wasn't totally unexpected.
My husband is taking it really hard. I wish there was something I could do to make him feel better. I feel so useless, there's nothing I can do to help him. All I can do is be there, and be supportive, and you'd better believe I will be, but... what would I give to take that hurt away from him. I really hate seeing my loved ones suffer.
Honestly, I'm still pretty numb about it. I'm sure it will hit me once we have the funeral on Tuesday. So not looking forward to that...
So, that's why I haven't updated this blog in a few days. Haven't had a chance... It's been way too crazy around here.
13 comments:
OH Sweetie I'm sorry to here this. My heart is with you and yours.
God Bless you and your family
Condolences to your family.
Prayers for you and your family and for hubby. I know it is hard and I know it hurts but the memories will soon out weigh the sadness. We have to go on for our children and spouses and for the generations to come. All you can do is be there and give them a shoulder if they need it. HUGS to all of your and you! God Bless you during this trying time.
Leslie
I'm so sorry honey x
Huge hugs to you and your hubby, if nothing else know that you are NOT useless... I'm sure all your hubby wants is for you to be there x
Take care hun x Selena
I'm so sorry to hear that, my father in law passed away,, well it's gonna be a year now on June 4th. and he took it very hard for us it was sudden.. I hope your hubby is okay, it took mine a while but now he can talk about dad without getting upset.. good luck to you, you have a beautiful family by the way!
So sorry to hear about your father-in-law. Just remember that there are plenty of us out here to offer you support. Don't hesitate to lean on us.
Melissa
I don't know if this means anything, but the night before last I was working on a layout. I kept staring at the pretty metallic elements you made. Now I wonder if God was pointing me in your direction. Then this morning Selena sent me here to offer my condolences. I hope it helps, even if just a little.
Melissa
So sorry to hear this.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May Angels surround you all and ease your sorrow.
Blessings, Lisa
Sorry to you and your family for your loss
Condolences to your husband and your family.
So sorry to hear of your loss. It is so very hard to deal with the grief of loosing a parent, or anyone you love. Like you said, just be there for him; and from lots of experience, I know that with time the hurt will get a little easier.
Just wanted to send you some Hugs! hang in there sweetie!
Just sending some hugs for you and your family. There is nothing anyone can say at a time like this to make it better but I hope knowing that we are thinking of you helps just a little. Sue
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